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Ponder this, lovely one. Why stay addicted to the pain? How does it help you?
You need them to get it? To say sorry? To put it right?
If they were going to, wouldn't they have done it? Already?
Maybe they're not even here anymore. So it feels unfinished and you're left holding it all, because some things just never got said, couldn't be said, were beyond being able to be said.
So now, all that's left is you, waiting for the apology you're never going to get. At least, not in the way you have imagined.
Why not you decide? Just decide. It doesn't really matter where the apology actually comes from. So much better from one who gets it than from one who never did.
Do it for you. Because this is about you. Not them. Don't make it about them. Stop giving them so much power. If they didn't get it, take their power to withhold yet again away from them, and take that power onto your own hands. Just take it back.
Sometimes, we free ourselves by walking away.
Sometimes we give ourselves the apology we never got, or the love we yearn for. Healing is always from the inside out, gentle soul. Always.
And that's where the hope and the healing lies. That means that it's in your power, no one else's. It never was theirs to withhold, you have just believed it was. That apology can happen any time you choose.
Do you see? You don't have to wait, or try to convince or to demand. Or beg. There doesn't need to be a battle. There's no one to confront. Maybe you've waited long enough.
You simply forgive yourself and break free. Forgive yourself for hoping, forgive yourself for waiting, forgive yourself for not seeing the con, and for not taking your power back sooner.
They are not your responsibility. But you are, and this is your moment 💖
Rumi said, “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
Our mindfulness practice helps us become aware of those barriers so we can open our hearts and connect with our loved ones in a more meaningful way.
Use the practices in the 'Relationships' category of the 'Life Situations' section to help you become aware of old patterns of behavior that just don't serve you or those you love. ...