△Trauma permanently changes us△⠀
This is the big, scary truth about trauma: there is no such thing as “getting over it.” The five stages of grief model marks universal stages in learning to accept loss, but the reality is in fact much bigger: a major life disruption leaves a new normal in its wake. There is no “back to the old me.” ⠀
>>You are different now, full stop<<⠀
This is not a wholly negative thing. Healing from trauma can also mean finding new strength and joy. The goal of healing is not a papering over of changes in an effort to preserve or present things as normal. It is to acknowledge and wear your new life -warts, wisdom, and all- with courage.⠀
I’ve been working with my sexual trauma with this Carnellian Egg from @yoni_pleasure_palce To help awaken my sexual energy, libido and passion. ⠀
Working with the Sacral and Base Charkas ⠀
Carnelian restores vitality and motivation, and stimulates creativity. It gives courage, promotes positive life choices, dispels apathy and motivates for success. ⠀
Check out my link in the BIO to get a $$ discount off your Yoni egg at @yoni_pleasure_palace ⠀ ...
complete, whole and perfect, that I am. -
message of the day: people will always have something to say and criticize about you but please remember it is only a reflection and projection of their own internal fears and anxieties. learn how to discern from opinions that add value vs. projections of people’s mediocre/fear driven realities... stop taking things personal because they have nothinggg to do with youuu. everything to do with them - however please don’t bash anyone you feel isn’t valid to give an opinion. receive what you hear gracefully, without making it true in your reality. people are layered the f*ck up with programming after programming so please do have compassion 🌟 ...