𝔸𝕣𝕖 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕘𝕦𝕚𝕝𝕥𝕪 𝕠𝕗 𝕟𝕖𝕘𝕠𝕥𝕚𝕒𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦𝕣 𝕠𝕨𝕟 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕥𝕙?
#metoo 🙋🏻♀️ until I took myself off the clearance rack.
Listen, you can negotiate your wardrobe, your salary, your thoughts annnnd you can even consider negotiating your opinion...But the moment you start negotiating who you are, you lose yourself. Your life force flickers and goes out, you become a people pleaser, an avoider and detached from yourself. You barely exist other than to seek validation and avoid rejection.
The only validation you should be seeking is for your parking ticket okay?
Please ... never, and I mean never EVER, negotiate who you are. Why? Because you and your DNA your unique fingerprint, there are no two alike and YOU matter! You're here for a reason! You have a destiny that YOU and only you can fulfill. You have a unique superpower, discover it. Find your purpose and sprinkle that sh$t everywhere!
You CAN be messy, complicated, afraid, but 🙏 be your own invitation to MORE & never stop BEing you! Show up for yourself. If not you then who? If not now then when? If something is consuming you, preventing you from taking action, ask yourself: will this even matter in 5 years?
Don’t know what your purpose even is? Start asking better quality questions. To yourself and others. ”hey what am I really good at? How would you describe me to others? What do you think my superpower is?”
Tag someone that need a little reminder, and don’t we all need a little reminder? 💋 ...
Such an honor to be photographed by the one and only @toddrphoto 👈🏻📸 Todd and I have known each other for over 10 years and this was the first time we ever did a shoot together and it was totally impromptu. We run into each other in different cities in different parts of the world from time to time and I really cherish those moments together. 😌 ...
Some of you are sooo caring and so empathic, that you may not want to reach your full potential of success, because you think others will feel “bad”. I’m talking about family members or friends who will feel bad about the amount money or abundance you have- and maybe even jealous. Some of you may even be feeling this now. A feeling of guilt or undeserving-ness, because you are at the top of your game, and others feel/are “lower”. Let me tell you this:
Do not stop living your life and your dreams for anyone, no matter what others will say. You will have envious or jealous people, but that shouldn’t stop you from shining ✨. You are where you are today because you put in the work or effort (or you got lucky, and if so, who cares!). You’re living your life how you want to, so please do not feel guilty for being successful. And do not feel guilty for WANTING to be successful.
Also, the past, is the past. You can’t go back and change things you’ve done. It’s over, no more, gone, etc. So continue to live in the now, guilt free. You are meant to be right where you are, and no one should change that. Continue becoming greater!
~Shanny Mel 💛 -Angels of Abundance: Doreen Virtue